"The curse which lies upon marriage is that too often the individuals are joined in their weakness rather than in their strength, each asking from the other instead of finding pleasure in giving. It is even more deceptive to dream of gaining through the child a plenitude, a warmth, a value, which one is unable to create for oneself; the child brings joy only to the woman who is capable of disinterestedly desiring the happiness of another, to one who without being wrapped up in self seeks to transcend her own existence."
那種狀態,用我至今所知有限的文字形容的話,只有 Static這字可以形容。Static : a condition, a live form without mass, without wavelength, without time, and actually without position. An actuality of no mass, no wavelength, no position in space or relation in time.